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November 8, 2012  |  TaKeisha Walker

 Recently the John J. Heldrich Center for Workforce Development and the Kessler Foundation released a study examining factors effecting successful completion of post-secondary education by students with disabilities.  After reading the article, I began to think about my own transition from high school to college and realized that I unwittingly employed several of the strategies highlighted in the study.

 When I left for college, my mother and I drove up a day early to get to know the city and spend some time together.  A range of ideas permeated my thoughts all day from “how am I going to set up my room?” to “Wow, I don’t have to share the remote with anyone!”  It was hard to focus on what was coming and the fact that the next day I would be on my own. I am woman enough to admit that the tears started to roll down my cheeks, once we arrived on campus, unloaded the car and my mother turned to walk out of the room.  Her leaving meant that I was an adult responsible for finding my own food, understanding how to get from class to class on time, and all of the other hundred things that seemed so overwhelming at the time.

I sat there on my extra-long twin bed feeling a bit lost and disgusted with myself all at the same time.  I thought that I wanted to be out of my mother’s house and in my own space. I thought I was ready, but now that the opportunity was actually in front of me, all I could muster were feelings of fear.  In the midst of my pity party, I heard a knock at the door. I quickly wiped my face, did a mirror check to find out just how red my eyes were, and cleared my throat before asking, "Who is it?"  The response from other side of the door gave me comfort and thrust me into a moment of shame for being such a baby about the whole experience.  On the other side of that door was a friend that I had made in middle school. 

Her visit helped me gain some perspective and forced me to take my first step outside of my room without my mother.  As time went on, I became one of the most active freshmen on campus participating in a number of student organizations, working as a research assistant for one of my favorite professors, working as a tutor for the Student Resource Center, mentoring incoming freshmen, and writing for the campus newspaper.

What are the specific strategies identified in the study and utilized by me?  

  1. Involvement Leads to Persistence: Students active in their campus community are more likely to successfully complete college. This participation can take both formal and informal paths and include hanging out with friends, joining a student group, working with the campus Disability Services’ office or seeking out a faculty mentor.
  2. Find your Voice:  Students should responsibly advocate for themselves. This could mean seeking out resources from Disability Services or educating professors about accommodations and available campus resources.  As we transition from high school to college and again from college to full time employment or graduate school, we have to communicate effectively with others about our needs.   One study participant said it best, “know yourself, stand up for yourself, and do not be afraid to share your thoughts.”

At the end of the study, administrators had an opportunity to discuss best practices and challenges that they have encountered. We would love to give the community members a chance to share best practices and challenges that you or your loved ones have experienced.  Go to our Facebook page or follow us on Twitter to share your experiences and tips.

 

 


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Submitted by Pebbles at 10:07 PM on June 19, 2013
We saw the letter that Takeish Walker aka Barb wrote to the Human Relations Commission to try to have Paulette Faulkner's credibility questioned. I'm so happy that not only did they see the envy and jealousy displayed in the letter, they also are looking into you threatening a Public Official and making false allegations. I don't know if Paulette's daughter's father is aware of what you did on May 21st, 2013 but if he had anything to do with this you just signed a ticket that's going to ruin his life. My only concern is for his daughter little Maysa. Due to you trying so desperately to ruin her mother's life what you've done is destroyed Sharif. He's going to wind up paying for what you did with his freedom. I pray he didn't take part in your actions Takeisha. For the last and final time leave Paulette and Maysa alone. Stop trying to hurt them you have Sharif all she want is the money to ensure her baby is supported. Unfortunately women like you make things bad for other women. Takeisha leave her alone final warning.
Submitted by Rena Blunt at 02:19 PM on June 19, 2013
Well, well, well, Ms. Takeisha Walker you wrote a nice letter to the Commissioner's Office unfortunately your tactics once again backfired (Barb) ha ha ha!!! You are a sick deranged woman, and I refuse to allow your jealousy to bring Ms. Faulkner down. I thought you knew Ms. Faulkner went public about you and Sharif a long time ago therefore everyone knows all about you. You even stooped as low to tell them that she disliked illegal immigration well sweetie why do you think she was chosen? Her views are totally different from that of your average person that goes along just to get along. Did you know Sharif is a Republican I guess not otherwise you wouldn’t have made that statement, but then again yes you would have? Women across the globe know what you have tried to do and what you have done. You had the nerve to tell them Ms. Faulkner spent 14 days in jail well idiot she was not convicted an her record is squeaky clean. Takeisha Shree Walker the printout you took from the government website just makes her case against you stronger. Stupid do you not remember Sharif and yourself going on her twitter page printing her pictures and things she tweets about? His dumb ass bought to court and it was entered into evidence so who really is the cyber bully? Did you forget that all the bogus cases filed by you and Sharif is on record? Remember you didn’t show up, and he dropped his illegal charges (can we say penalty of perjury). From what we hear his own attorney is disgusted with him and no longer wants to represent him because you all are liars. How stupid do you think people are they know that this is about money? You are angry because you have to pay all the bills and the man you sleep with works hard every day and his money goes to his baby’s mother ha ha ha. You are so desperate that you think by trying to discredit this woman it will make your life easier well sweetie get use to it because Maysa is not going anywhere and neither is her Mommy. You forgot that Sharif told the court that he would give up his rights not to pay Mommy Child Support therefore everyone knows what this is about. You are an insecure, jealous, unattractive, bipolar coward that’s possessive, demanding and treat Sharif like he’s a child. By the way she doesn’t keep her baby away from her father; she keeps her baby away from your jealous behind. Everyone knows how you really feel about her and Sharif’s baby even his family. They know deep down you despise his baby and you will hurt her at the drop of a hat because you hate her mother so much. Sharif is literally miserable living with you, but he’s stuck his back is up against the wall so he has to endure all this because no other woman is going to support him financially like you do. So tell me does Sharif know that you once again tried to hurt his baby mother? Well it doesn’t matter because he can’t do anything about it because you call the shots. I'm so glad she decided to go Public about what happened to her at Sharif and your hands so the entire world knows. So keep it up because it’s only going to get better and eventually it’s going to all come crumbling down. Make sure you keep paying all of Sharif's bills and providing for him so that he can provide for his baby Mommy. You are a very sick woman and it’s unfortunate that Ms. Faulkner has to endure this type of foolishness from you, but yet you claim to support women. Get a grip girlfriend Sharif is tied for the next 16yrs, and his daughter will always have the best of everything while you struggle. You are the lowest of the low, and from what I understand you clock Sharif every move because of your insecurity. He has no freedom, and you speak to him like he’s a dog. I feel sorry for Sharif really I do because he is now realizing what a mistake he has made by getting involved with you. He knows it’s too late to get away from you because he doesn’t want to go back home to his mother. Bottom line Takeisha Shree Walker leave Ms. Faulkner alone stop harassing this woman.
Submitted by Neutral at 01:50 PM on June 2, 2013
To Ms Burns you are up at 6:30am threatening this woman that you claim you are watching and waiting for the right moment to put her away. Who saids things like that and by the phoney or phony can be spelled two ways. Why are you so gun ho to try to hurt this lady? My niece Yvette Withers attended one of her forums and she was overwhelmed with emotion. Apparently you don't know the entire story so let me give you some insight. Takeisha Walker started sleeping with Ms Faulkner's child's father while she was still pregnant. He left his pregnant woman in the hospital to be with Ms Walker. While Ms. Faulkner was still hurt behind the breakup she called and argued with Sharif Bobbitt and had said ugly words to him. He kept the messages although he too said ugly things to her. While she felt it was just an argument between the two of them he and Takeisha Walker used it against her to have her arrested for 14 days. Once she was released Ms Faulkner fought for child support for her new baby which was abandoned by Mr Bobbitt. This angered Ms Walker who then instructed her new fiance' to find a way to take her baby from her even if it meant not telling the truth. Ms Faulkner and her lawyers obtained a video of the alleged place in which they accused her of making threats and it was determined that Ms Walker and Mr Bobbitt had been creating false allegations about her the entire time. Ms Faulkner won her child support and this angered them even more. Ms Walker then instructs Mr Bobbitt to give up his rights to his precious baby and offer Ms Faulkner $250 a month. Ms Faulkner refused his offer and needless to say Ms Walker was not a happy camper. So before you try to hurt people get your facts correct. How would you feel if this happened to you or someone in your family? To: Ms Faulkner I read your post and please don't ever try to justify your actions you did nothing wrong. I admire your courage its a shame women will do anything for a sorry man. I hope you cause her more financial hardship by taking every dime he gets. Let Ms Walker continue to pay for sleeping with another woman's man knowingly. Let her continue paying all of his expenses because if anything happens your child will get half of everything he has whether they are married or not. Congratulations on your new appoitment keep shining this only makes them angrier.
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To Barb Burns, I have no idea who you are and you must be a Coward too. I have done nothing to anyone other than fight for the rights of my child. Please do a full investigation on my background the Ccounty Executive did right before he appointed me to the Commission. Where do you think my lawyer came from? Remember I never had an attorney you fiance' Sharif Bobbitt did therfore I urge you to check your facts. As far as me spending time in jail sweetie I was detained for a maximum of 14 days for which a perjury investigation is underway for that so again I say check your facts. You see Takeisha Walker and Sharif Bobbitt messed up by filing that last false report on 1/8/13 this triggered an investigation to be launched. Remember he added your name to everything and low and behold it was discovered that June 2012 you tried to file false charges as well. Then Sharif shows up in court after his lawyer told him he was going to be charged for lying and what did he do? The coward dropped the false charges well it was too late because my attorney had already contacted the D.A. so guess what the jail you are so desperately trying to put me may just be your own. Don't wish harm on an innocent person because it will come back at you. For the last time Takeisha leave me alone and stop blaming me for your situation with Sharif. You just need to accept he's going to take care of me whether you want him to or not which means indirectly you are going to support me too. For the record NEVER has any of my children been taken from me EVER. You and Sharif tried to get Maysa but once again it backfired. So go away leave me alone and stop blaming me for things my friends write. If I have something to say to you, or anyone else I will say it I'm NOT a COWARD you are.
Submitted by Penny at 03:14 PM on May 24, 2013
I am using my known name because Takeisha Walker aka Barb Burns have involved me in something that I was just made aware of. I have never met Takeisha and this woman continues to try to attack my character while playing Mommy to my baby (that's just sick). Insecure women do that to make themselves feel big and to try to prove a point. Unfortunately my daughter's father Sharif Bobbitt is so out of touch with reality he allows this. Takeisha and Sharif are the cyber stalkers I have proof where they would go on my twitter page and print things that I tweet, as well as print my pictures to try to use against me in court, but it failed. Let me set the record straight I have never been convicted of anything please check my background and criminal record. I was detained for 14 day as a result of Takeisha Walker and my daughter's father Sharif Bobbitt lying under oath stating that my family was gang members when no one in my family outside of my son who was arrested in 2007 has ever been in trouble. I have never had any problems concerning the law until these two people got angry about me fighting for child support for my child. I come from a family of professional working class people and I made a huge mistake by having a relationship with Sharif Bobbitt and having his baby. I do not regret my child, but I do regret him being her father. I am a lot of things, but I have never been a coward so anything I say or do I can back it up ask Sharif he knows me well. Takeisha started sleeping with my child's father while I was pregnant and "yes" I was hurt and angry, but God has bought me someone so much better and everything that Sharif Bobbitt and Takeisha Walker has tried to do to me I have weathered that storm. I am no longer angry, bitter, nor do I care about the past. As long as Sharif pays his child support and continue to pay my bills I could careless what he and Takeisha do. So Takeisha Shree Walker continue perpetrating a fraud because I am real, oh by the way the prison bus NEVER. I grew up in the ghetto, and I worked my behind off to buy my first home at the age of 31. I put 2 children through 4 years of college as a single mom, and I am a darn good Mom at that. So continue with your insults because everyone knows you are the reason behind this bickering. I'm not ashamed of who I am in fact I'm proud of myself as well as my kids. I love my kids, my friends and family so I'm blessed. So go ahead continue with your threats Takeisha because the same prison you want to see me in is going to be the same one you Sharif wind up in. What goes around comes around Karma is real and you will never have any peace in your relationship no matter how much you financially support my daughter's father. You will always have strife and chaos in your life because of your wicked heart so go do you and let's see who wins in the end.
Submitted by You Phoney at 02:36 PM on May 24, 2013
To: Barb Burns Be careful when threatening people "yes" we all know that Takeisha Walker and Sharif Bobbitt lied and went to the Commissioner to file false charges on Ms. Faulkner. She spent 14 days in jail and speaks freely about her ordeal involving these two people and will gladly speak about you if need be (Takeisha). Ms. Faulkner's parents bought her first car at the age of 16, so catching the bus was never an option for her. Never has she lost custody of any of her children for no reason get your facts straight. Ms. Walker is the cyberbully she started this by involving herself in something she had no business. Sharif gave up the rights to his child because he's a loser, and was afraid of not being financially supported by Ms. Walker. He took a life and she tried to take a life, but it backfired. They then tried again to ruin her life, but she was prepared and had video surveillance ready for them, and what did the Cowards do they dropped the charges because he was headed back to prison to serve his 23yrs back up time. Don't be mad because Ms. Faulkner gets Takeisha Walker's husband's money and she has to support him. She's going to get his money for the next 16yrs, and be careful about threatening to put people in jail because what goes around comes around, and just like in the end they lost in court, they will again lose. Bottom line Takeisha you are desperate woman that want to be the mother of Penny's baby and you could never make a child that beautiful. Penny is doing great on the other hand you are suffering supporting a man that will never amount to anything. God is watching both of you and trust and believe the worst is yet to come for you two. Mr. Sharif Bobbitt is a snitch and the word is out and so are you Takeisha you are so insecure and so unattractive that's why you try so hard to hurt Penny.
Submitted by Barb Burns at 02:33 PM on May 24, 2013
Be careful when threatening people "yes" we all know that Takeisha Walker and Sharif Bobbitt lied and went to the Commissioner to file false charges on Ms. Faulkner. She spent 14 days in jail and speaks freely about her ordeal involving these two people and will gladly speak about you if need be (Takeisha). Ms. Faulkner's parents bought her first car at the age of 16, so catching the bus was never an option for her. Never has she lost custody of any of her children for no reason get your facts straight. Ms. Walker is the cyberbully she started this by involving herself in something she had no business. Sharif gave up the rights to his child because he's a loser, and was afraid of not being financially supported by Ms. Walker. He took a life and she tried to take a life, but it backfired. They then tried again to ruin her life, but she was prepared and had video surveillance ready for them, and what did the Cowards do they dropped the charges because he was headed back to prison to serve his 23yrs back up time. Don't be mad because Ms. Faulkner gets Takeisha Walker's husband's money and she has to support him. She's going to get his money for the next 16yrs, and be careful about threatening to put people in jail because what goes around comes around, and just like in the end they lost in court, they will again lose. Bottom line Takeisha you are desperate woman that want to be the mother of Penny's baby and you could never make a child that beautiful. Penny is doing great on the other hand you are suffering supporting a man that will never amount to anything. God is watching both of you and trust and believe the worst is yet to come for you two. Mr. Sharif Bobbitt is a snitch and the word is out and so are you Takeisha you are so insecure and so unattractive that's why you try so hard to hurt Penny. Listen to you, "Be careful when threatening people "yes" we all know that Takeisha Walker and Sharif Bobbitt lied and went to the Commissioner to file false charges on Ms. Faulkner. She spent 14 days in jail and speaks freely about her ordeal involving these two people and will gladly speak about you if need be (Takeisha). Ms. Faulkner's parents bought her first car at the age of 16, so catching the bus was never an option for her. Never has she lost custody of any of her children for no reason get your facts straight. Ms. Walker is the cyberbully she started this by involving herself in something she had no business. Sharif gave up the rights to his child because he's a loser, and was afraid of not being financially supported by Ms. Walker. He took a life and she tried to take a life, but it backfired. They then tried again to ruin her life, but she was prepared and had video surveillance ready for them, and what did the Cowards do they dropped the charges because he was headed back to prison to serve his 23yrs back up time. Don't be mad because Ms. Faulkner gets Takeisha Walker's husband's money and she has to support him. She's going to get his money for the next 16yrs, and be careful about threatening to put people in jail because what goes around comes around, and just like in the end they lost in court, they will again lose. Bottom line Takeisha you are desperate woman that want to be the mother of Penny's baby and you could never make a child that beautiful. Penny is doing great on the other hand you are suffering supporting a man that will never amount to anything. God is watching both of you and trust and believe the worst is yet to come for you two. Mr. Sharif Bobbitt is a snitch and the word is out and so are you Takeisha you are so insecure and so unattractive that's why you try so hard to hurt Penny. Listen to you, "major mistake that will put you away for good". You are sick and as I stated before desperate. So enjoy your $13hr husband continue to support his baby's mother and everything will be fine.
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Submitted by Barb Burns at 06:39 AM on May 21, 2013
WOW To You Phoney (Correct spelling “Phony”) this is a professional forum get a grip! Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind... Grow up girlfriend you are making yourself look bad! What would your fellow commissioners say if they looked into your criminal record Oh yea you have spent some time in jail as well. As far as that baby is concerned how many do you have that you have lost custody of as a result of your own bad behavior so shine your kettle before calling someone else’s black! By the way wasn’t it you Paulette Faulkner waiting for the prison bus when the man rolled off? Just remember I know you I have dealt with you before and I AM watching you and the things that you say and do I see, hear, and taste your every move I am just waiting for that major mistake that will put you away for good. I will not stand idly by and watch you do this to someone else. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! REMEMBER cyber bullying, harassment, stalking are all illegal actions. Be careful my eyes are upon you mypenny01.
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